Hello!
I think it's good that Puma started this topic. I've been hiking in mountains for about a quarter of a century and haven't gotten rid of the fear of heights or exposure yet, and it seems it will remain. I've walked quite a few paths that are described in various guides as partially demanding to demanding. But I don't dare venture on paths advised against for the vertiginous. So some paths will remain unreachable for me despite great desire. Every slightly more demanding path instills in me awe and respect, and I never overestimate my abilities. I might even try some more demanding secured path but I change my mind mainly because I'm afraid I'll be in the way of much more experienced hikers. To help you understand me better, I'll describe a situation that happened to me recently: After ascent to a popular peak via a path marked as demanding on this portal, the descent followed the same path. When walking, I'm never rushed and always go carefully. I think I'm not among the slowest, as I complete all paths in the times given in guides or on signs. There were quite a few people on the path, and to those who were very fast I said they could go past me. But a man almost catches up to me at a run. When I see how much he's in a hurry, I immediately step aside for him so he won't nervously pace behind me. But he yells at me for stepping aside in such an inappropriate place (I stepped higher onto a rock from the path, and the cable was completely free too). I'm convinced that if I hadn't stepped aside immediately, he would have cursed me saying that I'm hindering his descent because I'm dawdling.
So: besides vertigo, on harder paths there's also fear of much more experienced people who have no patience for us less experienced. I've also heard rude remarks to those who aren't among the most skilled (where is he rushing, better stay home,... etc.).
To avoid misunderstanding: I'm by no means lumping all experienced people together here. But such cases take away quite a bit of my courage.
I'm interested in your opinions on this topic.
